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The Psychology of Procrastination (and How to Stop It)
Procrastination is something almost everyone experiences. You might have a deadline looming, yet find yourself scrolling on your phone, cleaning your desk, or doing anything except the task you intended to complete. While procrastination is often labeled as laziness or poor discipline, psychology tells a a deeper story. Understanding why we procrastinate is the first step toward changing it. What Is Procrastination? Procrastination is the voluntary delay of an intended task,

Philicia B
Jan 303 min read


Navigating Cognitive Dissonance: Strategies for Personal Reconciliation and Supporting Loved Ones
Cognitive dissonance happens when our beliefs, values, or actions clash, creating mental discomfort. Understanding how to recognize and manage cognitive dissonance within ourselves and others can improve personal well-being and strengthen relationships with friends and family.

Philicia B
Jan 293 min read


Understanding Therapy: Clearing the Myths
Therapy can be intimidating due to misconceptions. This post aims to clarify what therapy involves and what to expect.

Philicia B
Jan 165 min read


Winter Wellness: Effective Strategies to Boost Your Mental Health Through Mindfulness and Self-Care
Winter can bring shorter days, colder weather, and less sunlight, all of which can affect mental health. Many people notice a dip in mood or energy during these months. The good news is that there are practical ways to support your mental well-being through mindfulness and self-care. This post explores concrete actions and introspective practices to help you stay balanced and positive during winter. A cozy winter setting with warm tea and blanket Embrace Mindfulness to Stay P

Philicia B
Jan 143 min read


What I’m Carrying, What I’m Releasing: An Activity to Use Your Creativity and Gain Insight
The start of a new year often comes with quiet pressure: set goals, let go, move on, be better .But change or healing doesn’t usually happen through erasure. It happens through integration . In therapy, we know that nothing we carry is accidental. Coping strategies, beliefs, patterns, formed to help us survive something difficult. This New Year activity offers a more compassionate approach: honoring what you’re carrying forward while acknowledging what no longer needs to come

Philicia B
Jan 72 min read


Narrative Belief Reframing: Updating Negative Beliefs
This blog introduces Narrative Belief Reframing, a gentle, trauma-informed approach for working with negative core beliefs that continue to feel true even when a person intellectually knows they are not. Many people in therapy express frustration that insight alone hasn’t changed beliefs such as “I’m not safe,” “I’m a burden,” “I’m too much,” or “It was my fault.” The blog explains that this disconnect is not resistance or failure—it reflects how beliefs formed through surviv

Philicia B
Dec 30, 20252 min read


Understanding the Value of Mental Health Education: Embracing the Importance of Mental Wellness
When we understand mental health, we can:
Recognize our own needs: Awareness helps us notice when we need rest, support, or professional help.
Mental wellness is the foundation beneath the noise of daily life. It shapes how we think, feel, and respond to the world around us.
I invite you to see mental wellness as a gift, one that deserves attention, respect, and love. By embracing mental health and education surrounding mental health, we help to reduce mental health stig

Philicia B
Dec 26, 20254 min read


The importance of slowing down
Mindfulness helps us notice what’s happening inside us without needing to fix or escape it. Approaches like the Hakomi Method offer a framework for doing just that; listening to the body, honoring curiosity, and allowing insight to arise naturally rather than through force.
Co-regulation reminds us that we don’t have to do this alone. Our nervous systems are shaped by connection. The calming presence of another person, or even an animal can help our body feel safe enough to

Philicia B
Dec 19, 20257 min read


Understanding Your Attachment Style: How It Shapes Your Relationships
Have you ever felt anxious waiting for a text from your partner or family member? Your mind telling you everything is probably fine, but your stomach twisting with worry that something must be wrong? Or maybe you’ve had the opposite experience; feeling a need to pull back or create space when someone gets too close, even if you care about them. While there’s no single explanation for all the ways we relate to others, these patterns can be traced back to our attachment style.

Philicia B
Nov 11, 20253 min read


Embracing the Emotions of October: Navigating Grief and Anxiety
The air is cooler, a gentle breeze whispers through the trees, and leaves begin to fall. As October unfolds, our days grow shorter, inviting a sense of reflection. You might find yourself feeling a bit sad or even unsettled. This month marks a natural shift in rhythm: the days become shorter, the weather cooler, and we start to realize that another year is drawing to a close. While autumn can bring beauty and comfort with its crisp evenings and cozy sweatshirts, it can also s

Philicia B
Oct 17, 20253 min read
How to Live Without Comparison: Reclaiming Your Own Path
Comparison is one of the subtlest thieves of joy. It doesn’t always roar loudly; sometimes it whispers in the quiet moments of scrolling...

Philicia B
Sep 16, 20254 min read
Ahimsa & the Root Chakra: Safety, Compassion, and Grounding
At the very beginning of yoga philosophy, before postures, before meditation, before advanced practices, we are invited into something...

Philicia B
Sep 15, 20254 min read
Somatic Therapy: Listening to the Body’s Story
A lot of the time when we envision therapy and healing, we focus only on the mind; on thoughts, memories, or beliefs. Yet with our body...

Philicia B
Sep 9, 20254 min read
The Quiet Strength of Acceptance
Acceptance is not about surrendering in defeat, nor is it about indifference. True acceptance is the willingness to meet life exactly as...

Philicia B
Sep 8, 20253 min read
Aparigraha: Loosening the Grip
In yoga philosophy, the practice of aparigraha , translated as non-grasping, guides us toward openness. It reminds us that clinging...

Philicia B
Sep 7, 20252 min read
Grieving the Living
There’s a unique kind of grief that doesn’t always get acknowledged: the grief of losing connection with people who are still alive. It...

Philicia B
Sep 6, 20252 min read
Journaling with CBT and Mind-Body Awareness in Chronic Illness
Living with a chronic illness can feel like carrying around an invisible weight. Some days, you may move through the world almost like...

Philicia B
Sep 4, 20253 min read
Reconnecting the Dots: Healing Trauma and Breaking Free from People-Pleasing
Have you ever found yourself agreeing to something with a yes when deep down you wanted to say no ? Or felt the need to ensure everyone...

Philicia B
Sep 2, 20253 min read
Gentle Tools for Healing: Tracking Thoughts and Moods with CBT
When you’re working through depression or struggling with intrusive thoughts, it can sometimes feel like you’re caught in a whirlwind you...

Philicia B
Aug 31, 20252 min read
Living and coping with Social Anxiety
When I find myself in a crowd, my first instinct is to run the other way. Of course, I don’t follow through with that urge; but that...

Philicia B
Aug 30, 20252 min read
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